Does this sound like you?
You've done the work. Listened to the podcasts, tried to show up better, adjusted your approach... but he's still shutting down more.
Your nervous system is exhausted from trying to figure out what you're doing wrong. You spiral between "I need to do better" and "Why won't he just meet me halfway?"
The spiral isn't a character flaw. It's your attachment wiring on overload.
On this call, we'll just talk about what's actually going on... and figure out if coaching is the right place for you to shift it.
Real coaching means you're ready to look at your side, get the tools, and actually apply them.
Real coaching isn't about venting (sometimes, yes)
It's about seeing your role in the dynamic, getting the tools, and actually changing the dynamic.
Because "what you don't change - you choose".
The spots I open are limited because the people who are ready to do that work and break the cycle.