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★ Break your Relationship cycles ★

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CART SUMMARY

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COUPLES COACHING

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CHOOSE YOUR PACKAGE

Flexibility & Risk-Free Guarantee

  • You can cancel anytime if you feel the coaching isn’t right or you’ve got what you need.

  • Just 48 hours’ notice before the month ends - no explanations required.

PAYMENT INFORMATION

PAYMENT METHOD

QUESTIONS + ANSWERS

★ How it works ★

01 Chat with me & get the green light 💚🗝️
We’ll talk by email (contact.the.marriage.coach.today@gmail.com) or a quick call to make sure coaching is right for you.

02 Choose your package & book 📅
Pick two calls a month or Unlimited calls + WhatsApp support.

Take the attachment quiz first to see your patterns. Then you can book your calls.

03 Next steps & start coaching ✨
After booking, you’ll get a welcome email, digital agreement, and the link for your first video call.

Start practicing tools between sessions and feel the change in your relationship.

COACHING CALL DETAILS + GUIDELINES

  • No Individual Sessions: If you are doing couples coaching, no 1:1 sessions will be taken to maintain balance between both partners.

  • Booking Calls: Couples are responsible for booking your calls within your subscription month. Unused calls do not roll over to the next month unless discussed beforehand.

  • Number of Calls: Usually 2 call per week (depending on your package) or unlimited.

  • Be on Time: The coach will wait 10 minutes for your call. If you miss your slot, the call will be cancelled.

  • Safe Space: Join focused, not driving, with minimal distractions and strong wifi connection to ensure the best experience.

  • Work outside of Calls: I understand that the success of couples coaching depends on actively doing the exercises, applying the tools, and practising the work outside of our scheduled calls. I commit to engaging fully between sessions.

👩🏼‍🏫 Who this is for˚🛋️⋆｡

🔘 Couples who love each other but feel stuck
🔘 Couples in anxious-avoidant cycles
🔘 Couples who want to stop hurting each other
🔘 Couples who WANT to stay together
🔘 Couples who are ready for real change

This is NOT for you if that's you:

🔘 Couples who want someone to “pick sides”
🔘 Couples who refuse accountability
🔘 Couples who just want communication scripts

Because we...

We go deeper.

We fix the ROOT. 🖤✨

★ Choose between 2 packages ★

🧑🏼‍❤️‍💋‍🧑🏻 Couples Package

€294 / month

2 calls per month (60min each)

Tools, exercises, and reflection between calls

No unlimited coaching in between calls, no group chat

Quick support via email for questions or wins

🧑🏼‍❤️‍💋‍🧑🏻 UNLIMITED Couples Package 💎

€894 / month

Unlimited calls (book as many as you need, also last minute ones)

Unlimited WhatsApp/Telegram group support for both partners

Guided coaching during conflicts if needed

Flexible, action-focused support whenever you need it

🙋🏼‍♀️📞 Next Step

Want to see if we’re a good match?
Let’s start with a free call or email me first (contact.the.marriage.coach.today@gmail.com)


We’ll talk about your relationship, your challenges, and how coaching could help,

and to check if you match the criteria for couple coaching.


No pressure, just a chat to see if it feels right.

P.S. Try this free attachment style quiz first.
It helps you see how you communicate, what makes you feel safe, and your patterns with each other ★

Which partner are you?

Identifying your attachment style is the FOUNDATION in our coaching.
It helps you actually see your own patterns, your thoughts, and why you react the way you do… so you can communicate CLEARLY and

regulate your nervous system without feeling like you’re losing your mind

Here’s a typical anxious–avoidant loop the one that pulls you two together like a messy little magnet duo

➞ the anxious partner chases, the avoidant partner pulls away, and boom… the cycle keeps spinning

❤️‍🔥 Are you the

ANXIOUS ATTACHED

partner?

💗 FEELING PUSHED AWAY?

You love so much, but the more you give, the further they seem.

🧠 OVERTHINKING EVERYTHING?

Every word, every look—replaying it in your head, wondering what went wrong.

💔 LONGING FOR CLOSENESS?

You crave reassurance, touch, connection

but it feels just out of reach.

😢 FEELING INVISIBLE?

Deep down, you worry you’re not enough,

unchosen, unseen.

🥶 Are you the

AVOIDANT ATTACHED

partner?

🥶 TOO MUCH LOVE?

You care, but it feels overwhelming, like you’re drowning in their needs.

⏳ NEEDING SPACE?

You pull away to breathe, to protect yourself—but it only sparks more tension.

💭 FEELING GUILTY?

No matter what you do, you worry you’re failing them, failing yourself.

🔒 SCARED OF GETTING IT WRONG?

You just want safety, calm, and for things to feel manageable again.

↓ Here’s the REAL problem: ↓

(it's NOT your partner, Your relationship and also NOT YOU)

Here’s what’s really happening…

Something happens…
A text.
A tone.
A comment.
A plan change.
A small thing.

★ Understand your patterns & stop the fight cycle ★

✨ THE CYCLE STARTS.

(It doesn’t always begin with the anxious partner -

it can start from either side depending on the day, the stress, the trigger.)

❤️‍🔥 ANXIOUS PARTNER gets ACTIVATED
(thoughts: “they don’t care,” “I’m not enough,” feeling panic,

talking more, asking for reassurance)

🥶 AVOIDANT PARTNER gets DEACTIVATED
(thoughts: “this is too much,” “I’m failing,”

feeling pressure, shutting down, pulling away)

❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 anxious gets MORE activated

• asks the SAME question again but with urgency
• checks partner’s tone, face, silence like a lie-detector
• follows them from room to room
• talks faster, voice shakes, tries to force a repair
• apologizes for things they didn’t do just to “keep the peace”
• threatens to leave but doesn’t want to leave
• spirals in their head imagining the breakup happening TONIGHT

🥶🥶🥶🥶 avoidant gets MORE deactivated

• becomes emotionally numb or blank
• stops explaining themselves completely
• increases physical distance - longer time in another room
• shuts down the convo with “I can’t do this right now”
• withdraws for hours or the rest of the day
• starts convincing themselves they’re “bad at relationships”
• fantasizes about running, escaping, or being alone because it feels safer

Back.
And forth.
And back.
And forth.

PAIN grows.

The old wound gets louder.
The old belief gets “proven” again.

Until you both collapse or make up temporarily…
And then one trigger starts it again.

This isn’t because you don’t love each other.
It’s because your wounds are talking louder than you can.
🖤✨

★ The Truth: ★

Most couples try to fix this with “better communication.”

But communication is NOT step 1.
It’s step 3.

You can’t FIX a cycle you don’t SEE.
You can’t TALK through a wound you never named.
You can’t CONNECT when your bodies are dysregulated.

Here’s how we fix it. For BOTH of you.

We stop trying to fix the surface.
We go to the CORE.

We break the cycle from the deepest layer:

★ How to break the cycle for BOTH★

🥶 ANXIOUS PARTNER

🧘 → LEARN TO SELF-SOOTHE:

calm yourself before seeking reassurance
(so you don’t over-rely on your partner and can stay grounded in tough moments)

🧠 → REWIRE BELIEFS:

“I need them to feel safe”

to → “I trust myself, I’m enough”

(because your sense of security comes from within,

not just from them)

🚶 → GRADUAL EXPOSURE:

handle space, regulate emotions,

communicate without pressure

(to prove to yourself that you can be okay even if your partner steps back,

building internal safety and confidence)

🥶AVOIDANT PARTNER:


🤝 → LEARN TO CO-REGULATE:

rely on your partner without losing independence

(so you can open up safely and build intimacy without feeling trapped)


🧠 → REWIRE BELIEFS:

“I’ll be trapped or defective”

to → “I can trust people, I’m safe, I’m good”

(to reduce fear of closeness and allow yourself to connect more freely)


💬 → GRADUAL EXPOSURE:

small moments of closeness, open communication, reinforce trust

(to show yourself that intimacy can feel safe,

enjoyable, and mutual without pressure)

This is the big picture. But every couple is different.
Your triggers are different. Your goals are different.
So sometimes we work on ONE thing first… Sometimes another.
It depends on what hurts the most right now.

👩🏼‍🏫 Couples Coaching helps you to: ˚🛋️⋆｡

01 SEE YOUR BLIND SPOTS 🔍

uncover patterns you didn’t even realize were shaping your fights and frustrations

02 SUPPORT EACH OTHER BETTER 🫂

learn how to respond instead of react, so you both feel safe and understood

03 REALIZE THE TRUTH 💭

your partner isn’t the problem, you aren’t the problem…

it’s the past creating fears that show up now (your attachment wounds)

Once you understand this, breaking the cycle isn’t just about stopping fights

it’s about building connection, trust, and closeness that lasts.

Here’s What Couples Coaching Does For You 🖤✨

And for BOTH of you…
• You learn EXACTLY how your cycle works
• You take accountability for YOUR piece
• You see how your actions affect each other
• You learn to interrupt the pattern
• You stop hurting each other by accident

Imagine this:
✨ Less yelling
✨ Less silence
✨ Less walking on eggshells
✨ Less panic and shutdown

✨ More safety
✨ More closeness
✨ More warmth
✨ More understanding
✨ More soft moments that feel like “us” again

What you get:
✔️ One session a week (or unlimited)
✔️ A clear plan for BOTH of you
✔️ Tools for your exact cycle
✔️ Simple language
✔️ Practical steps you can use the same day
✔️ A safe space where no one gets blamed
✔️ A calm guide who understands BOTH styles

Your first step:

We start by seeing your real cycle together.
Once you SEE it…
You can finally stop it.

If you’re ready, scroll down and book your first session.
🖤✨ Let’s fix this. Gently. Together.

Jula Buchwitz 2025