your anxiety isn't about him.
it never was.
and until you see that clearly... nothing changes.
your partner is not responsible for your anxiety,
he is only re-triggering your existing fears. It's time YOU heal your abandonment wounds, and feel good enough without shrinking yourself into a pretzel 🥨
(as a german, and ex-anxious attachers,
I know what its like)
you keep repeating the same relationship, the more you run, the worse it gets.
different person.
same pain. same reactions.
this is where it stops.